What is Couples Therapy? by Sanjana Gupta (part 3)
Couples therapists often employ an integrated approach to treatment, borrowing techniques from different forms of therapy, depending on your needs.
These are some of the strategies a couples therapist might employ:
Getting to know you: “The therapist creates a sense of safety by getting to know you and your partner. They work actively and collaboratively with you to help you understand yourself and your partner better,” says Mueller.
Identifying feelings: “The therapist helps you and your partner identify feelings and put them into words to one another,” says Mueller.
Exploring the past: Couples therapy can involve exploring your past, since that can help you better understand your fears, motivations, and behaviors in a relationship. It can also help address unresolved conflicts that affect your present.
Focusing on solutions: Your therapist will work with you and your partner to resolve issues, correct negative behavior patterns, and focus on positive aspects of the relationship.
Teaching skills: Couples therapy can help teach you and your partner anger management, problem solving, and conflict resolution skills. The aim is to equip you and your partner with tools to help you deal with issues as they crop up.